Are you ready to light your fire?

Come join me in person in London, Glastonbury, Amsterdam, Los Angeles, New York, New Jersey, Baltimore, Washington DC and  Atlanta during 2017.  Or join me online all year round.   Together we can make sure that you get some satisfaction! The online programme starts with a free 30 minute strategy session with me.

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Finding Your Passion Path

There are countless workshops, seminars and webinars to help you determine your career path, find your life passion, and create the job or career that will bring fulfillment in your work life.   There are a number of webinars, workshops and seminars designed to help you choose a mate.  Few workshops, webinars or seminars focus on helping you to define your intimate life yet this is a key element for a happy, long-lasting romantic relationship.

We are still taught that with love sex will ‘come naturally’ and that ‘when it is right, you won’t have to work on it.’ There are times that this is true – at least in the beginning of a relationship.  But once the extra hormones dissipate and once the newness has faded, it is common for sex to begin to fade as well.   Then the only way to create a relationship that satisfies your desires is to work on it, preferably together.

In this short workshop you will:

  • Find out how to make boring become interesting
  • Review the chemistry of lust, falling in love and attachment
  • Gain a few  tools to hone your intuition
  • Use your intuition to examine your erotic desires
  • Begin an Erotic History

At the end of the workshop, you will have the outline of your Passion Path drawn and be ready to look at fleshing out the form and even adding another person.

Your investment for this workbook = £47

Finding and Defining Your Passion Path

There are countless workshops, seminars and webinars to help you determine your career path, find your life passion, and create the job or career that will bring fulfilment in your work life.   There are a number of webinars, workshops and seminars designed to help you choose a mate.  Few workshops, webinars or seminars focus on helping you to define your intimate life yet this is a key element for a happy, long lasting romantic relationship.  We are still taught that with love sex will ‘come naturally’ and that ‘when it is right, you won’t have to work on it.’    There are times that this is true – at least in the beginning of a relationship.  But once the extra hormones dissipate and once the newness has faded, it is common for sex to begin to fade as well.   Then the only way to create a relationship that satisfies your desires is to work on it, preferably together.

In this short workshop you will:

Find out how to make boring become interesting

Review the chemistry of lust, falling in love and attachment

Gain a few  tools to hone your intuition

Use your intuition to examine your erotic desires

Begin an Erotic History

At the end of the workshop, you will have the outline of your Passion Path drawn and be ready to look at fleshing out the form and even adding another person.

You get 1 hour of coaching to guide you through this workbook.   Sessions are via Gotomeeting or in person.  Link to schedule will come in the confirmation email.

Your investment for this guided workbook: £200

20 Things not to Say to Survivors of Sexual Trauma

All to often partners, friends and families of sexual trauma survivors upset and re-traumatise the survivor when all they want to do is help.  This eBook covers things not to say and do and offers some suggestions of what you can say and do that will help.    If you want to be the best possible ally, consider purchasing the 2 hours of coaching add on at check out for a significant savings.

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Create Your Ideal Mate: The Wish List Workshop

Anyone who has had more than one failed serious relationship knows how difficult it is to avoid recreating negative patterns.  In order to avoid recreating negative patterns, you need to first be able to recognise them and then be clear about what you want instead.  When you have clearly described all of this, you then need to focus your intention on what you actually want and when someone comes knocking on your door, you need to step back and consider if they fit the description you have created of the relationship that will meet your needs.

This is an online version of a workshop I have been giving in person for the past 30+ years.   When you complete this workshop you will:

Have a thorough description of the person (people) you would like to have a relationship with in future

Have a thorough description of the relationship (s) you would like to have in future

Know your deal breakers and necessities

Be clear about your priorities.

Understand what you need to do in order to manifest these wishes

This version is meant to be done on your own.  There is a second version that is done with guidance online.  The final version is an in person or online group workshop.  We spend so much time setting business goals, personal development goals, career goals and goals for our financial future.    Often we spend little time on relationship goals and analysis.  The myth is that you will just ‘know’ and that the right relationship will ‘turn up’ – that ‘falling in love’ is something that is spontaneous and somehow if you analyse your desires, needs, and issues the magic will disappear.  This is rubbish.  You get out what you put in.  If you want the relationship of your dreams, you have to spend time creating it.  If you want to manifest better relationships in your life, you must spend time and energy focusing on the outcome you desire.  Just as you visualise your achievements in your career, you must visualise your achievements in your relationships. Happily ever after is much more likely if you put the work in.

Tell Me A Story eBook

If you are finding your sex life routine and are looking for sources of inspiration, you may find it hard to know where to look.  Many people suggest watching pornography but this is not for everyone.   These films are often extremely graphic and not everyone is comfortable with that level of naked detail.

A good erotic book or story is like skilled foreplay, by the end of it you find yourself enthralled as well as aroused and anxious to take things further.    Written erotica can be enjoyed alone or with a partner or partners.   Reading choice bits out loud to each other as you lie in each other’s arms is delicious.    Or perhaps going to a public reading where the author is reading her work will leave you feeling inspired?  I have been seduced more than once by each of these selections and I hope you will be too.

In this eBook you will find 75 of my favourite written selections.  Some of these are classic literature (two books by DH Lawrence, for example) and others are modern pieces.  There are science fiction and fantasy pieces, BDSM filled stories, stories focused on gay sex and others on straight sex.  Some of these are emotionally challenging and you can find yourself turned on despite the storyline.  Others are an easy read, simply arousing all the way through.    I have provided links to each selection so that you can purchase them with ease.

I wish you many hours of sexy exploration alone and with the people you love.

Light Your Fire Retreat

20150521_081926Life gets so busy that many of us find it hard to have quality adult time.  Holidays are usually built around children, family and work commitments.  Sometimes it feels impossible to just have a break together and when we book the time, we are so tired that we end up sleeping.

This retreat is designed to give you an adult break.  It combines some skills building and socialising with exciting field trips and a party to invigorate your relationship and re-light that fire.

The Light Your Fire Retreat which kicks off on Friday night with a Fire starter Meet and Greet Cocktail party.  There are ice breaking games to help you to get to know some of the group and to get everyone into the right mood.    On Saturday morning, there are two workshops: Love Language Level II that that deepens your knowledge of your love language and helps you to build your skills.  And the Erotic Explorer where we look at all the different places we can find inspiration for erotic growth.  Saturday afternoon is packed full of activity to stimulate your imaginations, improve your negotiating abilities and prepare you for the Saturday night field trip and party.  Some past field trips include a trip to a fetish club, a trip to a swing club, a Burlesque show and a Drag Show.  Sunday morning we spend debriefing from Saturday night and there is a recap where we consolidate what we have learned before we say goodbye.

Couples leave this workshop with increased sexual confidence and having had an exciting intimate weekend they take that sizzling hot energy back home.  You can come without a partner but need to speak with me before registering.

In 2017 join me:

In Amsterdam 3-5 March

In London 8-9 April

In Los Angeles 3-5 June

 

 

 

Relationship Reset

After an exciting two years, we fell into a routine. Friday night date night to the movies or an upmarket restaurant. Sex after the date – same routine. My BFF got us tickets as a birthday present for me. Things were awkward at first. We weren’t used to talking to others about our sex life. By Saturday night we were talking about everything. We went to a BDSM and Fetish party and tried a few things we had only fantasised about. Sunday night we were exhausted but still excited by what we experienced. Date nights now are much more adventurous.
Cindy and Margo

Casanova’s Secret

A Guide to Role Play in the Bedroom

Pirates, Damsels in Distress, Queens, Kings, Whores, Pimps, Priests and Nuns…

There are so many games that we can play to keep the spark alive.  Casanova loved drama and characters in relationships.  Sometimes it was said, the more drama the better.  Role play allows us to explore a wide variety of parts of ourselves.

This workshop will provide you with all the basic tools you need to create many wonderful scenes with your lover(s). You will learn how to create using all your senses.  You will create a script for at least two scenes.  You will learn how to handle all the unexpected things that can happen.

Join me in London on 25 February to create your basic tool kit.

 

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“The role play workshop and field trip was a blast!  We have been together for 10 years and were in a routine.  We still enjoyed sex but it wasn’t mind blowing like at the start of our relationship.  Close friends recommended this workshop and the field trip to a fetish club.    Best recommendation ever!  We have a ‘dressing up box’ hidden in the wardrobe with all the bits needed to transform into pirates, distressed damsels, police and prisoner, french maid and Master of the house.  The field trip introduced us to a whole new world.  We can’t wait for the advanced workshop and the next field trip.   Dr Lori Beth has helped us to start a bonfire in our bedroom.  We cannot thank her enough.”

Ray and June

California, USA

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