Create Your Ideal Mate: The Wish List Workshop
Anyone who has had more than one failed serious relationship knows how difficult it is to avoid recreating negative patterns. In order to avoid recreating negative patterns, you need to first be able to recognise them and then be clear about what you want instead. When you have clearly described all of this, you then need to focus your intention on what you actually want and when someone comes knocking on your door, you need to step back and consider if they fit the description you have created of the relationship that will meet your needs.
This is an online version of a workshop I have been giving in person for the past 30+ years. When you complete this workshop you will:
Have a thorough description of the person (people) you would like to have a relationship with in future
Have a thorough description of the relationship (s) you would like to have in future
Know your deal breakers and necessities
Be clear about your priorities.
Understand what you need to do in order to manifest these wishes
This version is meant to be done on your own. There is a second version that is done with guidance online. The final version is an in person or online group workshop. We spend so much time setting business goals, personal development goals, career goals and goals for our financial future. Often we spend little time on relationship goals and analysis. The myth is that you will just ‘know’ and that the right relationship will ‘turn up’ – that ‘falling in love’ is something that is spontaneous and somehow if you analyse your desires, needs, and issues the magic will disappear. This is rubbish. You get out what you put in. If you want the relationship of your dreams, you have to spend time creating it. If you want to manifest better relationships in your life, you must spend time and energy focusing on the outcome you desire. Just as you visualize your achievements in your career, you must visualize your achievements in your relationships. Happily ever after is much more likely if you put the work in.