Hi. I’m Dr Lori Beth Bisbey…
As a sex & intimacy coach and psychologist since 1987, I help individuals, and couples, and poly groups explore sexuality, create a healthy sexual identity after trauma, as well as deepen their awareness and understanding about intimacy and relationships.
I’m on a mission to bring sex and conversations about sex out of the shadow and into the light of day. It’s my personal and professional belief that everyone has the right to safely, comfortably, and confidently explore, express, and experiment with what arouses, excites, and frees you.
I am queer, non-monogamous, married and in a 24/7 power exchange/ authority transfer relationship with my husband. I am a CIS gendered leather woman and my pronouns are she/her.
Here’s what I know: ignoring your desires takes a large toll on your physical, mental and sexual well-being. How do I know this? I’ve lived it personally and professionally. But not anymore. Today, I am living a fully vibrant life complete with the relationship that meets my desires for power dynamics and exchange at my tempo and pace.
I set the rules and work within the framework of my negotiated agreements. Best yet, I don’t live this way as a one-time event. I live it each and every day.
This is what I can teach you to do.