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I often get asked by men how to help their partners who have experienced sexual trauma.  They have questions about talking to their partners about the trauma, managing and helping with symptoms and how to have a fulfilling sex life without re-traumatising their partners. Sexual trauma comes in many forms from childhood sexual abuse to […]

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For the full article, please go to Yourtango.com Orgasms come in so many shapes, sizes, and patterns! How much do you really know about orgasms? I personally had painfully little knowledge when I started having sex with others. The first orgasm I remember happened when I masturbated by rubbing against my teddy bear when I was 5 or […]

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C is for Come …   Come or cum is defined as slang for orgasm.   When talking about sex, coming is often the central topic as it is frequently the main goal.    Many people define good sex as sex in which all who are involved reach orgasm.  Equally, bad sex is often defined as sex in […]

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Because they think that this means they might get to indulge in two of the most common male fantasies:  Watching two women getting hot and sexual together and having a threesome with two women. It’s the fantasy that most men bring up as soon as they find out I am bisexual.   Question 1 is usually […]

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With so many mixed messages between men and women, what is this really about? It seems that since 50 Shades of Grey became popular, rough sex and BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/submission, Sadism/Masochism) have hit the mainstream. References can be found everywhere from Cosmopolitan to The Guardian newspaper. The desire for rough sex is NOT new. Want […]