Common Mistakes People in Non-Monogamous Relationships Make that Can Bring the Drama


One of the things I have noticed over the past number of years is how often a simple relationship mistake can bring drama with a capital D that lasts for ages. Often these mistakes fall into a few obvious categories. 1 It’s easier to ask for forgiveness than it is to get permission. This quote […]

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Polyamory in Authority Transfer Based Relationships

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I have written about polyamorous D/s relationships in the past.  Recently, in a mentoring session with the head of the leather household, House of Trei, Choc Trei, polyamory in a full Master/slave or Owner/property authority transfer based relationship came up as part of a discussion of their House tour.  The discussion raised new points and […]


Polyamory Language/Terms Defined


People often become confused about the language used around non-monogamy and polyamorous networks of relationships.  I will start with a disclaimer:  Language changes quickly.   New terms are added faster as the internet expands.    These terms and definitions are up to date at the time of writing.   However, your mileage may vary. With that said, here […]


Reboot: Sex Love Stories: TJ

Play / pause 1x 1.5x 2x 0:00 0:00 43:19 volume Reboot: Sex Love Stories: TJ iTunesGoogle PlayShare Leave a ReviewClammr ItListen in a New WindowDownloadSoundCloudStitcherSubscribe on AndroidSubscribe via RSS Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 3:  TJ Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. […]

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The Modern Guide to Breaking Up: Introduction

The time between New Year’s Day and just before Valentine’s Day is known as breaking up season. Couples who have been struggling for during the autumn and through the holiday season often use the ‘new year, new you’ energy as an impetus to end the relationship so that they can look towards Valentine’s day as […]